{"id":13614,"date":"2023-08-18T10:15:22","date_gmt":"2023-08-18T10:15:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mytutor.co.uk\/blog\/?p=13614"},"modified":"2023-08-18T10:15:34","modified_gmt":"2023-08-18T10:15:34","slug":"undecided-about-the-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mytutor.co.uk\/blog\/parents\/undecided-about-the-future\/","title":{"rendered":"Is your teen undecided about the future? Why being uncertain is a good thing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>So your teen isn\u2019t sure what they want to be. Or, they\u2019re unsure which A-Level topics to choose, which university course to apply for or which next step to take.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lots of us fear being undecided about the future, but it\u2019s a very normal part of life. Not being certain actually opens us up to different options and opportunities. It means we ask questions and want to explore different paths.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Being undecided about the future is normal<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We tend to praise teens for knowing early on the career path they want to take. We also encourage them to make fast decisions and have a clear plan.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, the vast majority of teens feel undecided \u2013&nbsp;and that\u2019s okay! A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.djsresearch.co.uk\/EducationMarketResearchInsightsAndFindings\/article\/A-quarter-of-teens-dont-know-what-to-do-after-compulsory-education-survey-finds-02416\">survey<\/a> by careers advice company <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/notgoingtouni\/?hl=en\">notgoingtouni.com<\/a> found that a quarter of teens don\u2019t know what to do after compulsory education.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While a new study from youth employment company <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fenews.co.uk\/education\/new-study-reveals-majority-of-uks-young-people-unaware-of-careers-advice-on-offer-2\/\">Youth Group<\/a> found that 63% of 18-25-year-olds are curious but unaware of the current career advice available to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thousands of pupils are unsure about the right route for them after school, and they\u2019re looking for information and support to help them decide. Rather than see this as a negative thing, it\u2019s time we flipped the concept of being undecided on its head.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are 5 ways that being undecided about the next step can actually be a great thing for your teen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. It means they\u2019re open to exploration&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBeing undecided and undeclared is a good place to be as it\u2019s a source of exploration,\u201d says singer and podcaster, Robby Celestin in his recent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=h_uzV5lqr4U&amp;ab_channel=TEDxNorthPark\">Tedx talk<\/a>, <em>Being Decidedly Undecided<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being curious and open to learning means your teen is more likely to try a wide range of subjects at school or modules at uni and they\u2019ll be more open to different paths, widening their options.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All your teens\u2019 different experiences can also interlink. \u201cEverything we learn over \u2018here\u2019, eventually feeds something over \u2018there\u2019 \u2013 your life experiences and journeys will show you the way,\u201d says Robby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Being Decidedly Undecided--By: Robby Celestin (TEDxNorthParkUniversity 2017)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/h_uzV5lqr4U?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Robby Celestin&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=h_uzV5lqr4U&amp;ab_channel=TEDxNorthPark\">Tedx talk<\/a> is a helpful reminder that your teen doesn&#8217;t need to have it all figured out.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. It means they have time to experiment&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After school, the next stage of your teen\u2019s learning is voluntary. It\u2019s a choice for them. And while the countless options can seem overwhelming, your teen\u2019s generation is in a good place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThis next generation is the largest, most savvy generation to ever hit the planet,\u201d says writer and editor Genevieve Morgan in her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=GWbCiI-1MmY&amp;ab_channel=TEDxTalks\">Tedx Talk<\/a>, <em>Undecided<\/em>. \u201cYou can uptake big data, you\u2019re information ninjas and you have extremely long lives to look forward to. So, yes there are so many options, but you also have time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cYou have years to reinvent yourself, experiment and throw things up against the wall. Carving a career is important, but how and where you do it has never been less important.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. It means they\u2019re more likely to reach out for support<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether your teen is choosing their GCSE or A-Level topics or contemplating the next move after school, sixth form or college \u2013\u00a0being undecided about the future means they\u2019ll want to talk things through.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019ll be open to information, ask lots of questions and likely learn from different sources of support \u2013 including yourself, careers advisors, teachers, mentors, tutors, youth information sites and social media. All you need to worry about is helping them find their most helpful sources of support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. It means the pressure\u2019s off<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cProblems arise when you\u2019re paralysed with indecision or you secretly know what you want to do but you\u2019re denying it to please other people,\u201d says Genevieve. \u201cThat \u2018should\u2019 voice comes up in your head, and it can cause you to make decisions based on fear, rather than what you truly want.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being undecided means the pressure\u2019s off and your teen is free to explore what really matters to them. \u201cThat pressure can get really intense, and you might be burned out and need to take a break,\u201d says Genevieve.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your teen might want to take a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mytutor.co.uk\/blog\/students\/dont-fear-the-gap-year\/\">gap year<\/a> and work in a local shop, travel, become a tutor, volunteer abroad or locally. There are so many organisations that can help your teen figure out the next step, like <a href=\"https:\/\/yearoutgroup.org\/\">Year Out Group<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncvo.org.uk\/#\/\">Volunteering England<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.trailfinders.com\/holiday-styles\/gap-year-and-student-travel\">Trailfinders Travel Academy<\/a>. Lots of universities also value this reflection time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>5. It means they\u2019re growing<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBeing undecided about the future doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re stifled and it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re stuck, it actually means you\u2019re growing,\u201d says Robby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe roots of your life are going to intertwine whether you have a plan or not. So if you don\u2019t that\u2019s okay. My advice is just to move. Go out and find something you love. It\u2019s okay to wonder what you\u2019re going to do next, because that\u2019s moving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are plenty of moves your teen can make that will help them figure things out along the way. And it doesn\u2019t have to be university \u2013&nbsp;they might consider <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mytutor.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/The-MyTutor-Guide-to-Apprenticeships-1.pdf\">apprenticeships<\/a> or traineeships, studying overseas or trying online courses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cEvery time you try, succeed or fail \u2013 it\u2019s movement. If you\u2019re feeling a little lost in life, it\u2019s okay as long as you\u2019re moving forward in some way. You\u2019re not undecided, you\u2019re simply evolving!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Think your teen might benefit from a mentor and role model? Our tutors can help build their confidence as well as help with learning gaps and exam revision. Find the right one for them <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mytutor.co.uk\/view-tutors\/\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So your teen isn\u2019t sure what they want to be. Or, they\u2019re unsure which A-Level topics to choose, which university course to apply for or which next step to take.&nbsp; Lots of us fear being undecided about the future, but&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":11261,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[788],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Is your teen undecided about the future? Read this | MyTutor<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"So, your teen is undecided about the future. 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