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Kids start learning from day one, which means they come up against challenges too. As a parent, you might want to jump in and rescue them if they\u2019re struggling. You might also feel responsible for their education and keen to hold their hand through everything from homework challenges to their first exams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While a parent\u2019s role is so important in a child\u2019s learning, it\u2019s helpful to know when your efforts might be helpful and when it\u2019s best to let them figure it out for themselves. Or, delegate to their teachers or tutors when you can\u2019t help effectively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here, we speak to author and education expert Professor Guy Claxton to find out the things you can do to encourage them to grow \u2013 and the things that might not help in the long term.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s helpful?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Being a role model<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Kids are easily inspired by what their parents do. While this can feel like a lot of pressure, it\u2019s really just helpful to remember that setting a good example with things like healthy habits and a love of learning can rub off really easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

From reading at home to dedicating time to your hobbies; limiting your screen time to being kind to your friends \u2013 by modelling habits like these, you can teach your child balance and spark their own passions without even trying! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being a coach<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Every child is good at something, and being their coach and cheerleader is a helpful role to play. Prof Claxton says that to build up your teen\u2019s confidence in their schoolwork, you should encourage them in the areas where they\u2019re doing well (without piling on a ton of pressure, of course). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if they\u2019re struggling with confidence or self-belief<\/a>? As a coach, you can find out where they need help, listen actively and then help to build them up! By being more of a coach, you can also help them build independence and resilience<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What isn\u2019t helpful?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Being a superhero<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Whether your teen is struggling with their homework or cooking a meal, you might be tempted to just step in straight away and save the day. But, this can actually hinder their learning process according to Prof Claxton. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s very common for well-meaning parents to come to the rescue. But, kids at every age \u2013 even toddlers \u2013 want to have a go on their own. They feel a lot of pride in working through a challenge, and they can get a bit grumpy with meddling parents.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your child is floundering or really needs help, you know it\u2019s right to step in. But, when it comes to their learning, Prof Claxton recommends being a \u2018guide by their side\u2019 instead of a superhero. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all about helping them develop the independence and curiosity that will help them enjoy learning. Allow them to be curious, adventurous and creative and it will help them enjoy taking on challenges, rather than fearing them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being a subject expert<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t be an expert on everything. And sometimes it\u2019s better to reach out for support rather than stress yourself out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your teen\u2019s teachers are always open and able to support you if you\u2019re worried about their progress at school. Even better, a tutor<\/a> who\u2019s close in age to your teen could also double as a helpful mentor and great source of help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cInvolving someone neutral can take the charge out of a tough challenge,\u201d says Prof Claxton. \u201cThe last thing we want is to add to children\u2019s stress with our own.\u201d Being a \u2018guide by their side\u2019 is all about giving teens the right resources so that they can smash it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Want to help your teen level up? Our tutors can help them get ahead of new challenges and feel happier and more confident at school. Find the right tutor for them <\/strong>here<\/strong><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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